Why is it so hard?

In this post you'll recognise that 'it' differs for each of us. Your it isn't mine. Mine isn't yours. 

The hard bit is what we share.

Good for you if it isn't. Not necessarily bad for you if it is, or me.

Whatever the issue is, a way out to the solution is what we want.

Who posted the sentries on the route from here to there, where here is now and there is where you want to be, to make the journey more difficult?

No-one! Once we hold the realisation that the obstacles aren't deliberately positioned in our way, and there truly isn't some agenda to prevent our progress, then we are free to move on.

When 'there' is reachable from 'here', it all seems instantly possible.